Presentation

  1. 1

    Invite the child to a table. Lay the outlined placemat flat.

  2. 2

    Place the plate on its outline. Place the fork on the left and the spoon on the right, each on its outline.

  3. 3

    Fold the napkin in half and lay it on its outline. Place the cup at the top right.

  4. 4

    Point to each outline and object; matching each shape is the point of interest.

  5. 5

    Sit down and show how to receive food: a partner carries the serving plate and offers it.

  6. 6

    Stand and show serving: carry the pitcher, stand to the right of the seated person, ask: 'Would you like some water?' and pour to the line.

  7. 7

    Show clearing: carry each item to the dish-washing area, fold the napkin into the laundry basket.

  8. 8

    Invite the child to set a place, then to serve a partner.

Extensions, easiest to hardest

  1. Set a place on a plain placemat without outlines
  2. Set a table for four at snack or lunch
  3. Serve snack to a small group, offering to each person in turn
  4. Arrange a small flower vase as the table centerpiece

Control of error

The outlines on the placemat show where each object belongs; an empty outline or an extra object is visible.

Ready to move on when the child…

  • Sets a full place on a plain mat
  • Serves a drink to another person without spilling
  • Sets the table for a group without adult help

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