Safety

  • Glass and ceramic items only with supervision and where licensing allows.
  • Store forks where the child carries them tines down and walking, never running.

Presentation

  1. 1

    Invite the child: 'We are going to set your place for lunch.'

  2. 2

    Walk to the shelf together. Carry the placemat to the table and lay it flat in front of the chair.

  3. 3

    Walk back and carry the plate with two hands. Set it on its outline. Matching the plate to its outline is the point of interest.

  4. 4

    Carry the glass, then the spoon and fork, then the napkin, one at a time, placing each on its outline.

  5. 5

    Point to each outline and name the object on it.

  6. 6

    Invite the child to set their own place. Walk with them to the shelf and wait while they carry each item.

Extensions, easiest to hardest

  1. Set a place for a friend
  2. Set a place with a plain placemat without outlines
  3. Carry items on a small tray instead of one at a time
  4. Put a small flower vase on the table

Control of error

The outlines on the placemat show where each item goes; an empty outline shows an item is missing.

Ready to move on when the child…

  • Sets a full place on the outlined mat without help
  • Carries each item without dropping it
  • Sets their place before meals without being reminded

Try “pink tower”, “tummy”, “diaper”, “grace and courtesy”, or “October”.