PL 3.11Table Manners
The child learns to chew with the mouth closed, pass a dish to the next person, and ask to be excused from the table.
Presentation
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Invite a small group to sit at the snack table with a partner adult.
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Put the napkin on your lap. Take one apple slice, close your lips, and chew slowly.
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Swallow, then speak. Point out that you waited until your mouth was empty.
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Show passing: hold the bowl with two hands, turn to the person beside you, and say: 'Would you like some apple?' The partner takes some and passes it on.
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When a dish is out of reach, say: 'Please pass the crackers.' Do not reach across another person.
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When finished, wipe your mouth and say: 'May I please be excused?' Wait for the answer, push in your chair, and clear your place.
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Invite the children to practice at snack.
What catches the child’s eye
- Closed lips while chewing
- The bowl moving from hand to hand around the table
Extensions, easiest to hardest
- Pass several dishes around the table at a class meal
- Ask a friend a question at the table and listen to the answer
- Host a guest at snack
Control of error
Others at the table see open-mouthed chewing or reaching; a dish that is not passed stops at one person.
Ready to move on when the child…
- Chews with the mouth closed and speaks after swallowing
- Passes dishes with two hands and asks for dishes out of reach
- Asks to be excused and clears their place
Guide note
Check food allergies before any shared food. Children eat seated to lower choking risk. Table customs differ between families; present the class custom without calling others wrong.