1. 1

    Invite a small group: 'I will show you how to open and close a door so no one hears it.'

  2. 2

    Stand facing the door. Turn the handle all the way and hold it turned.

  3. 3

    Pull or push the door open slowly, just wide enough to walk through.

  4. 4

    Step through. Take the handle on the other side and keep it turned.

  5. 5

    Close the door slowly until it touches the frame. Let the handle turn back so the latch slides in. Listening for the soft click is the point of interest.

  6. 6

    Open the door again the same way, walk back through, and close it.

  7. 7

    Invite each child in turn to go through the door and close it without a sound while the others listen.

What catches the child’s eye

  • The handle held turned so the latch stays in
  • The soft click as the latch settles

Extensions, easiest to hardest

  1. Hold the door open for a person carrying something
  2. Open the door for a visitor and close it after they come in
  3. Open and close a cupboard door the same way

Control of error

A bang or a loud click is heard by the whole group.

Ready to move on when the child…

  • Closes doors in the building without a bang
  • Holds the handle turned until the door is shut
  • Holds a door for others without being asked

Guide note

Show that hands stay on the handle, never on the hinge side or the door edge. Fit finger guards or a door closer on heavy doors.

Try “pink tower”, “tummy”, “diaper”, “grace and courtesy”, or “October”.