1. 1

    Gather a small group by a closed door. A partner waits inside.

  2. 2

    Say: 'When a door is closed, someone may be busy. Watch what I do.'

  3. 3

    Make a loose fist and knock three times, gently, with your knuckles.

  4. 4

    Step back and wait with your hands at your sides.

  5. 5

    The partner says 'Come in.' Open the door quietly, step in, and say why you came: 'I came to bring this note.'

  6. 6

    Show the other answer: knock again; the partner says 'Just a minute, please.' Wait without knocking again until the door opens.

  7. 7

    Invite children to take turns knocking and waiting.

What catches the child’s eye

  • Three soft knocks
  • The pause while waiting for "come in"

Extensions, easiest to hardest

  1. Knock on the bathroom door before opening it
  2. Knock at the office or another classroom to deliver a message
  3. Answer a knock: open the door and greet the visitor

Control of error

The partner answers only after a knock; walking in before "come in" interrupts the person inside.

Ready to move on when the child…

  • Knocks and waits before opening a closed door
  • Waits without knocking again after "just a minute"
  • Says why they came when invited in

Try “pink tower”, “tummy”, “diaper”, “grace and courtesy”, or “October”.