1. 1

    Invite the child and carry the tray to a table, objects in the left bowl.

  2. 2

    Pick up the joined chopsticks. Rest the lower stick in the web of your thumb and against your ring finger; it stays still.

  3. 3

    Hold the upper stick like a pencil with your thumb, index, and middle fingers. Open and close it against the lower stick. Showing that only the top stick moves is the difficulty isolated here.

  4. 4

    Pick up a cotton ball, carry it over the right bowl, and open the sticks to drop it.

  5. 5

    Continue until the left bowl is empty.

  6. 6

    Invite the child to move the objects back.

  7. 7

    On later days, use separate chopsticks, then eat cubes of cucumber or melon at snack with them.

What catches the child’s eye

  • The tips of the two sticks meeting
  • A cotton ball held in the air between the tips

Extensions, easiest to hardest

  1. Move smaller or smoother objects (dry pasta shapes, wooden beads)
  2. Eat a whole snack with chopsticks
  3. Talk about the families and countries that use chopsticks at meals

Control of error

The object drops when the sticks cross or the lower stick moves; crossed tips cannot meet.

Ready to move on when the child…

  • Holds the lower stick still while the upper stick moves
  • Moves all the objects without dropping them
  • Eats a snack with separate chopsticks

Guide note

Check food allergies before the eating stage. Children sit while eating with chopsticks and never walk with them.

Try “pink tower”, “tummy”, “diaper”, “grace and courtesy”, or “October”.