1. 1

    Gather a small group. Ask a partner to stand at the shelf.

  2. 2

    Lay out the work on a mat. Walk to the partner and ask: 'Would you like to work with me?'

  3. 3

    The partner says 'Yes, please.' Walk together to the mat and sit side by side.

  4. 4

    Say: 'You take a cube, then I take a cube.' Place one, then wait with your hands in your lap while the partner places the next.

  5. 5

    Continue, one turn each. Point out the waiting hands.

  6. 6

    Show the other answer: invite a second partner, who says 'No, thank you.' Answer 'All right' and work alone or ask someone else.

  7. 7

    Put the work away together. Invite children to practice inviting and taking turns.

What catches the child’s eye

  • Hands resting in the lap during the other person's turn
  • Two children building one tower

Extensions, easiest to hardest

  1. Agree before starting who will put the work away
  2. Use a sand timer for turns with a popular material
  3. Invite a younger child and show them the work

Control of error

The work goes forward only when each person waits for their turn; grabbing stops the role-play.

Ready to move on when the child…

  • Invites a friend with words and accepts either answer
  • Waits for a turn without reaching in
  • Puts a shared work away with the partner

Guide note

Many works are for one child at a time. Show the group which works on the shelf can be shared.

Try “pink tower”, “tummy”, “diaper”, “grace and courtesy”, or “October”.